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A place to go after work | Bonus Essay

NB: If you celebrated Thanksgiving this week, I hope it was everything you wanted it to be. Because of the holidays, today's piece is short and was a bit delayed. - HH

It was a simple board and batten building, uninsulated, with a tin roof and a dirt floor, resting on a six-inch-high concrete mudsill. When I knew it, in the late 1970’s, its owner had been dead for nearly a decade…

Tony and Me | Bonus Essay

One of the things I love about my life is the unlikely relationships I have. I am friends with millionaires and people who live under bridges, with snake handling preachers and high church bishops, with atheists and holly rollers, with PhD's and elementary school dropouts, with folks who are NYT bestselling authors and folk who are illiterate.

And thanks to a very surreal decade of my life, I know lots of public…

Hog Killing Day | Bonus Essay

Some housekeeping: Today's essay contains a censored version of a word that I debated heavily whether to include. It's in the context of story, and it's a direct quote, so in the end, I included it. Being a White storyteller from the US South gives you near endless opportunities to have ethical quandaries such as this. 

The other thing is that some folks have asked if they can forward these essays to…

What I know how to do | Members Only

NB: This is NOT the essay I promised you every Saturday morning. But the election and it's aftermath has disrupted my life and productivity, and I owe you a newsletter, and it was much easier to write, so I did that. We will return to regular programing next week. - HH

Hey y'all, 

I do not pretend to know the partisan affiliations of those who read my work. In fact, since…

The Stuff | Bonus Essay

It’s 6:45 AM, and I’m on the front porch, drinking my coffee as the sky in the east turns pink, and slowly the golden sun peeks over the horizon. Cars whir by on the highway at the end of the block, their headlights a blur, and the sunrise is mostly hidden by the garish Chili’s restaurant sign. I take a deep breath and the exhaust fumes burn my lungs. I hear no…

The split | Bonus essay

NB: This was just an idea - that there are events that split time - that I have been noodling on for a while. I'm not done with it, but a weekly deadline means some writing is abandoned rather than finished. I may rewrite it later - I like the pre-pandemic parts the best. Also - still working on the private podcast idea - in some ways it is harder than I…

The house where they lived | Bonus Essay

It’s not a large house – barely 1000 square feet. It was built in the early 1950’s, in a new subdivision being marketed to Black professionals. The neighbors were professors, merchants, and at least one poet – Margaret Walker lived in the only two-story house on the block, but on the other end of the street. 

Like many houses from that era, it is in all ways smaller than houses being built…

Much to learn | Bonus Essay

The school was in an old building that had begun life at the turn of the last century as a private home, but whose most notable use was as Dr. Wright's Sanitarium for the drug and alcohol addicted and those suffering “minor nervous disorders.”  In 1962, 15 years before I would set foot upon the campus, William Faulkner would die in what would become my first-grade classroom. That I learned to write…

A perfect day | Bonus essay

Friends, 

Like many of you, I have watched from afar the reports of the devastation from Hurricane Helene as it ripped across the southeast of the US. The mountains of Western North Carolina were especially hit hard, leaving hundreds dead and thousands homeless.  

Having spent many fine days and weeks in those mountains and having deep close friendships with people who have built lives there, I am devastated and, frankly, numb…

The Vacation Edition | Member's Only

Note: This is the Member's Only newsletter that you get monthly because you support my work as a part of my membership team. Thanks for that.  It's more behind the scenes, both business and personally. I sometimes say things in this format I wouldn't put on the open internet, so I would appreciate if you kept this off the record. - HH


Hey y'all,

First, some admin: There will be…

Simple made fancy

In the small rural North Mississippi community of my childhood, there was one unpardonable sin, one transgression that was unforgivable, and that was to act above your station. We did not have much, but we were a proud people, and how dare you act like you were better than we were just because you had more money, or were born elsewhere, or had been taught to pronounce the consonants at the end…

What the house taught me | Bonus Essay

The deadline of publishing each week means I write more, which was one of the goals. But since Saturday comes whether I'm done or not, sometimes it feels rushed, like this one does for me. I will explore this topic in more depth later, with more length and a much better ending. Thanks for going along the creative process with me. - HH

It was the first house I would own, a…

Eight names | Bonus Essay

In the Jewish scriptures, we are told the story of a man named Abram. He is promised by his God that he will have unheard-of levels of wealth, that his descendants would outnumber the stars in the sky, and that he would be abundantly blessed. 

Abram was told that he was being blessed in this way in order that through him, all the world would be blessed. 

I want to introduce you…

Talismans

Mr. Doc was a tall man, especially for his time, with broad shoulders and a strong back, somewhat stooped with age. He was retired, and while it’s convenient shorthand to call him a retired farmer, he had really been a bit of everything - a well digger, a truck farmer, and a small-time cattleman. Like most folks that lived around me when I was growing up, he did what he needed to…

ADHD Tax | Bonus Essay

Hey ya'll! - Two things: First, I made a page on the member's only website where you can see the archives of these essays, download cookbook chapters, and other things. The second is that I want to occasionally drop letters, postcards, and other physical treats to members as the mood hits. There won't be any schedule to it, but random surprises. If you are willing to give me your mailing address, please…

Clarity is kindness | Bonus Essay

Hi there - this week my wife had a procedure at the hospital, and this essay was a side effect. This week's essay is a bit longer than I normally go, but I didn't have time to write it shorter ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. As a reminder, I am now sending an original, unpublished essay each week as bonus content for my members. I hope you like it! - HH

The receptionist at the…

August 2024 - members update and an announcement

Hi y’all, 

I know I owe y’all a lot of personal updates, but I wanted to let you know about an upcoming additional perk you will get as a member of my patronage team: A free original weekly essay, sent out each Saturday morning. 

This will hopefully solve two problems for me: 

The first is that I need to write more, and if I don’t have a deadline as an incentive, it…

Member's drop-in call tonight!

Hey y'all, 
Man, my life has been weird the last few weeks because of my day job. Actually, it's just been weird in general. But that's a story for another day. 

The reason I'm writing you right now is that in last month's Member's Only email, I said I was blocking an hour off tonight for a drop in Zoom call. I put it on my calendar and then, honestly, forgot about…

Real Writing | Members Only

Hey y’all. 

In the closing words of one of my favorite novels, Gilead, the protagonist , on his deathbed, writes these words for his young son to read after his death:

I'll pray that you grow up a brave man in a brave country. I will pray you find a way to be useful. I'll pray, and then I'll sleep.

That’s all I’ve ever wanted: To be useful. In fact, I…

A New Room | Members Only

Note: This is the Member's Only newsletter that you get monthly because you support my work as a part of my membership team. Thanks for that.  It's more behind the scenes, both business and personally. I sometimes say things in this format I wouldn't put on the open internet, so I would appreciate if you kept this one off the record. - HH

Hey y'all, 

It’s Monday morning, and I’m…